I’ve heard the saying bad things come in 3s many times over the course of my 20 something years. The thing is, I never really believed it, or perhaps never took notice of 2 minor bad things next to 1 mega bad thing.
But here I am, mid-March and within a span of 2 short weeks I experienced the dreaded 3.
I will spare you the details, but I will say this, my life is about to under go a make over.
The main part of this life make over is that I no longer have a job; certainly a mixed blessing at the moment, but focusing on why this sucks is going to make me feel sad and drag me down, plus what’s done is done and it’s time to move forward!
What I have decided to do is to treat this like a fresh start and an opportunity to focus on improving the over all quality of my life.
Right now it’s kind of hard to see the silver lining, but here are a few way I think would be most useful during this state of starting over:
1. Work out… like it’s your job!
With the wedding this year I get goosebumps, not the good kind, thinking about having 250 pairs of eyes on me for a large portion of one day. My self motivational skills are absolutely abysmal, especially when I am working full time. So yay! silver lining #1: literally being able to work out like it is my job. For the next little while I here by commit to running upwards of 5k 5-6 times/week.
Let’s toss in a few Jillian Michaels videos and some Nike Training Club action and within a month I bet I will start seeing my body making the changes I’d like.
If I can’t do this now I never will.
2. TV is NOT your friend.
What’s worse when feeling like a shit than also becoming a couch potato who relies on TV to get you through the day? Not much.
I refuse to let this make me a total TV zombie.
New rule: TV is not my friend during working day hours. If boyfriend is watching fine, but my butt stays off the couch and on a yoga mat getting some workouts in.
Without a job, it would be really easy to slip into some PJs, grab some extra pillows and enjoy the company of Leslie Knope, or the gang from Community during this enforced sabbatical, but I refuse to submit!
3. Prioritize job searching with purpose.
I have an annoying, insatiable need to feel connected to my job. If I don’t feel connected the job is in jeopardy from the beginning.
While I can’t take too much time to be too particular in this area it is still an amazing opportunity to explore what will make me happy in this new town (aha! silver lining #2!)
This is a great chance to really figure our what I want for myself.
I know I need to dig and dedicate at least an hour each day to scouring the internet for new opportunities.
4. Quality time with Tolstoy
It could be Tolstoy, or Hemingway, or even Kinsella; regardless, me and my paper back amigos are going to spend some quality time together.
Perhaps silver lining #3 is that this could be the happiness project that I have been meaning to explore for what is probably years!
This definitely stings right now, but I hope that with the right mindset I can make this into something that is incredibly positive for this new part of my life.